**Vitiligo hai toh kya hua? Society ko kaise samjhaun? Pls help!**

Yaar, aaj kuch sochne pe majboor kar diya. Bahar nikal gaya tha local market mein, kuch samaan lene. Ek bachcha, shayad 7-8 saal ka, mujhe dekh ke apni maa se pucha, "Mummy, is chacha ke haath pe yeh safed kya hai?" Aur woh maa ne aise hatheli se muh chhupaya, jaise koi bhoot dekh liya ho. Bola, "Chal, aage chal." Sunke bahut bura laga. Vitiligo hai, koi chhuti ki bimari nahi hai. Log samajhte kyun nahi?

Main to ab isse accept kar chuka hoon. Treatment bhi chal rahi hai—psoralen aur UVB therapy try kar raha hoon. Hathon aur hothon pe dhabbe hain, toh kuch log to haath milane se bhi katrate hain. Ghar mein maa-baap toh supportive hain, par society ka pressure alag hai. Shaadi ke liye rishte aate hain, phir pata chalte hi "soch lenge" ka jawab aata hai. Kabhi kabhi lagta hai, kya humari skin hi humara identity card hai?

Mujhe bas yeh poochna hai: Aap logon ne apne family ya society ko kaise samjhaya? Koi tarika jo kaam aaya ho? Ya phir humein bas ignore karna seekhna chahiye? Thoda guidance chahiye, bhaiyon.