Shaadi se pehle ED ka dar: Kya masturbation se body kharab ho gayi? Pls help!

Yaar, main bahut preshaan hoon. Meri shadi agle mahine hai aur mujhe ED hai. Bahut darr lag raha hai. Kuch din pehle ek dost ne bola ki "tu bahut masturbation karta hai isliye ye sab ho raha hai." Ab mujhe lagta hai ki maine apni body kharab kar di hai. Main subah uthke bhi soft feel karta hoon, performance anxiety ne to halat kharab kar di hai. Kal raat sochta raha ki shaadi ke raat kya hoga? Pati patni ke bich mein kya hoga? Darr se panic attack aa gaya.

Maine socha hai ki kisi hakim ke paas chala jaun, par log kahenge ki "pagal hai" ya "kya soch raha hai." Mummy ne ek baar kaha tha ki "bas shaadi ke baad sab theek ho jayega," par mujhe lagta hai ki yeh myth hai. Kya sach mein masturbation se ED hota hai? Ya yeh sab dimaag ka khel hai? Koi genuine advice do, please. Main bahut confuse hoon aur kisi se share nahi kar sakta. Family mein koi nahi samjhega. Doctor ke paas jane ka bhi soch raha hoon, par shadi se pehle kaise bolun? Please help karo.