Shaadi ke 6 mahine baad pati bhi nikla diabetic! IVF aur sugar ka double dose tension - kaise manage karein?

Meri shaadi ko 6 mahine hue hain. Husband bahut supportive hai, lekin aaj pata chala ki wo bhi patient hai - sugar ka. 28 saal ka hai aur borderline diabetic. Main toh sochti thi ki sirf mera issue hai endometriosis, par ab uska bhi health concern hai.

Maine IVF ka suggestion diya tha doctor ne, par ab toh aur tension hai. Uska khayal rakhna bhi zaroori hai. Aaj uska report aaya - fasting 140 hai. Doctor ne strict diet aur exercise bola hai. Lekin main secretly worried hoon ki agar wo bhi serious ho gaya toh?

Main abhi chuna beej powder le rahi hoon periods ke dard ke liye - thoda aaram milta hai. Par IVF ka kharcha toh sochti hoon toh neend nahi aati. Uske treatment ka bhi kharcha hoga.

Ghar mein family ko nahi bataya. Wo log pehle se hi tension mein rehte hain. Kya koi yahan hai jiska partner bhi kisi chronic condition se struggle kar raha ho? Kaise manage karte ho dono ke health aur finances? Please share karo.