Mausi ji ka good news wala sawaal aur IVF ka pain - 4 saal baad bhi kya karein? Adoption ya IVF?

Aaj mere ghar pe family dinner tha. Mausi ji ne phir puch liya, "Beta, ab toh good news bhi suna do." Main toh bas smile dekar chup ho gayi, lekin andar hi andar rona aa raha tha. 4 saal ho gaye, 2 IVF fail. Ab relatives ko kya samjhaayein ki har baar pregnancy test negative dekhna kitna painful hota hai? My husband says "enough is enough, let's think about adoption." But my heart is torn. I feel like maybe ek aur IVF try karna chahiye. But then I think about the money, the emotional toll, the injections, the waiting. Adoption ka idea bhi acha lagta hai - ek bachche ko ghar dena, pyaar dena. But kya main itna strong hoon? Kya society adopt karegi? Kya relatives wahi "good news" ka wait karein ya adoption ko accept karein? I am currently trying to heal my mind with meditation and some yoga, hoping it helps with the stress. But honestly, koi toh batao - aap logon ne IVF continue kiya ya adoption choose kiya? Kaunsa raasta zyada peaceful raha end mein? Please share your experiences. I feel so lost.