Maa ki bimari ne meri zindagi khatam kar di, caregiver burnout se kaise bachun? 🙏

Haan ji, aaj bahut din baad forum khola hai. Maa ki tabiyat din prati din girti jaa rahi hai. Ab unhe khud se kuch nahi hota, na khana, na pani, na bathroom. Main hi uthaati hoon, main hi khilati hoon, main hi saaf karti hoon. Raat ko neend nahi aati ki pata nahi kab kya ho jaaye.

Doctor ne kaha tha ALS ka koi ilaaj nahi, lekin hum Riluzole de rahe hain. Koi fark nahi padta. Ek do din pehle unki aankh ka nerve bhi weak ho gaya, ab dikhta bhi kam hai. Mera mann karta hai ki main bhi ro loon, lekin unke saamne kya rooon.

Sabse mushkil baat yeh hai ki meri apni zindagi khatam ho gayi hai. Mera pati aur bachche mujhe samajhte nahi. Kehte hain "tu sirf maa ke paas baithi rehti hai, humein time nahi deti." Par main kya karoon? Agar main nahi baithungi toh kaun baithhega? Bahut akela feel hota hai.

Kya kisi aur ko bhi aisa lagta hai ki aap apni zindagi bhool gaye hain? Caregiver burnout ka koi ilaaj hai? Kuch tips do, thoda sahara chahiye. 🙏