IVF fail ho gaya, ab adoption ya last try? Bahut confuse hoon, pls help

Yaar kal hi mera ek relative mila - "Aarti beta, ab toh kuch karo, umar nikal rahi hai" jaise main kuch kar nahi rahi. 4 saal ho gaye, 2 IVF fail, ab log bolte hain "adopt kar lo, itna kyun suffer kar rahe ho". Lekin mere mann mein ek dar hai - agar adoption ke baad bhi IVF ka mann kare toh? Aur agar IVF karun aur fail ho toh wapas wahi depression.

Maine kal apne husband se kaha - hum dono confused hain. Adoption ka process bhi easy nahi hai India mein, aur IVF ka financial burden bhi bahut hai. Pichle IVF mein toh mujhe OHSS hua tha, 10 din hospital mein. Ab doctor bol raha hai "last try kar lo, embryo quality achi thi".

Koi hai jo same situation se guzra ho? Adoption ke baad kaisa laga? Ya last IVF try karna better hai? Please share your experience. Main bahut emotional hoon aaj, ghar mein akele ro rahi hoon.