Bieve itni protective ki main useless! Kya aapke saath bhi aisa hota hai?

Bhai log, aaj ek baat dil se share karni hai. Kal subah uth ke halka sa chest tightness feel hua, bas 2-3 minute ka. Main sochta hoon kuch nahi hai, lekin Bieve (meri wife) ne dekha to uska reaction dekhne layak tha. Seedha doctor ko phone, "Sir ye kya hua, kuch batao." Phir poora din mujhe bed par hi rakha, chai bhi utha kar de di. Bole "kuch mat karo, main sab kar dungi." Lekin yaar, main toh thik hoon, operation ko 2 saal ho gaye. Par uski aankhon mein woh dar, woh tension... mujhe apne aap par gussa aata hai ki main hi uska cause hoon.

Treatment: Abhi sirf aspirin aur statin regular le raha hoon, aur hafte mein 4 baar 20 minute walk karta hoon.

Problem: Bieve bahut overprotective ho gayi hai. Agar main zara bhi kuch uthaun to daant padti hai, "tujhe kya zaroorat hai?" Ghar mein mera koi kaam nahi raha. Main samajhta hoon woh pyar se karti hai, par kabhi kabhi lagta hai main useless ho gaya hoon.

Sawaal: Kya aap logon ke saath bhi aisa hota hai? Wife ya family ka itna protective hona normal hai? Main kaise samjhaun ki mujhe bhi thoda normal life chahiye?