Bhabhi ne kaha adopt karo, IVF fail hone ke baad kya karein?

Aaj subah meri bhabhi ne phone kiya. "Good news kab aa rahi hai?" puchne ki bajaay directly bola, "Ab toh tum log adopt kar lo, itna kyun pareshan ho rahe ho." Jaise adoption koi second-grade option ho. Mera dil toot gaya. Usne nahi dekha ki main 2 failed IVFs ke baad bhi abhi 3rd cycle ki tayyari kar rahi hoon. Doctor ne do mahine ka break diya hai hormones settle karne ke liye.

Main abhi ashwagandha aur shatavari ka powder le rahi hoon daily, kyunki naturally bhi try kar rahi hoon. Par mann karta hai ki ab sab chhod doon. Adoption ka form bhi dekha hai, lekin pati ka kehna hai "apna blood connection chahiye." Main confuse hoon. Koi toh batao, jab 4 saal lag chuke hain, 2 cycles fail ho chuke hain, toh kya aur IVF ka risk Lena uchit hai? Ya adoption mein bhi khushi mil sakti hai? Kya kisi ne similar situation mein adoption choose kiya? Please share your experience. Mera dil bahut heavy hai aaj.