Beti ki shaadi aur hysterectomy ka confusion! Kya karun? Pls help!

Meri beti ki shaani ki planning chal rahi hai, aur main soch rahi hoon ki hysterectomy karwa loon ya nahi. Bahut confusion hai yaar. Menopause ke symptoms toh already start ho gaye hain - raat ko neend nahi aati, hot flashes aise aate hain jaise aag lag gayi ho, aur pet ke around fat aise jama ho gaya hai ki koi kapda nahi fit ho raha. Mood swings bhi severe hain, kabhi rona aa jaata hai kabhi gussa. Mera gynaecologist keh raha hai ki hysterectomy se problems kam ho sakti hain, par main dar rahi hoon.

Meri ek friend ne karwaya tha, usko toh bahut relief mila, par doosri cousin ko problems hui. Suna hai isse early menopause bhi trigger hota hai, par main already perimenopause mein hoon. Hormone replacement therapy bhi soch rahi hoon, par side effects se darr lagta hai.

Family mein kisi ko pata nahi hai ki main yeh soch rahi hoon, nahi toh beti ki shaani ki tension aur badh jaayegi. Please batao, kya hysterectomy karwana sahi rahega? Ya natural menopause ka wait karna better hai? Koi experience share karo.