4 saal try, 2 IVF fail, ab adoption ya IVF? Mausi ka sawaal aur rula gaya

Yaar kal phir mausi ne puch liya "ab toh good news do". I just smiled and changed topic but andar se bura laga. 4 saal ho gaye try karte, 2 IVF fail. Ab soch rahi hoon ki kya karein.

Maine logo ne suna hai adoption bahut mushkil process hai India mein. Paper work, home visits, court cases. Aur IVF bhi ek baar aur try karne ka mann hai but financially bhi bohot drain ho gaya. Har baar injection lagwane ka dard, blood tests, hope aur disappointment ka cycle... main emotionally exhausted hoon.

Mere husband keh rahe hain ki we should consider adoption now. Unka kehna hai ki "bacche ki zaroorat hai humein, DNA nahi". But main confuse hoon ki kya main apna hi baccha nahi pa sakti toh kya adoption se woh connection ayega? Koi experience share karo jisne adoption ya further IVF ka decision liya ho.

Aaj subah ek friend ka delivery update dekha, rona aa gaya. But I know I need to be strong. Bas advice chahiye kya karna better rahega. Please help. 🙏